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Card #c1316IR // #c1316Synthesis

"“Every system, probably just like every person, probably thinks that they are the smartest one in any conversation. But you need integration, sitting between them, smiling, and making their interactions work."

— In our words · Source: Digital Impact (Steve Lucas)

[Use when]

You're mediating between teams, partners or systems that each insist on their own way of working.

[Why it matters]

Abhinav Gaur, who speaks four languages, manages integrations at Tony's Chocolonely. He compares systems to people who each believe their own grammar is correct. The fix is a go-between that lets each side keep its own terms.

Filed under situations:When the other side has more leverageWhen the team is looking to you to lead

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Same situation, different book

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