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"In 1736 I lost one of my sons, a fine boy of four years old, by the small-pox, taken in the common way. I long regretted bitterly, and still regret that I had not given it to him by inoculation." "my example showing that the regret may be the same either way, and that, therefore, the safer should be chosen."

— In our words · Source: The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin (Benjamin Franklin)

[Use when]

You are avoiding the safer choice because you fear regretting it if it goes wrong.

[Why it matters]

Parents skipped inoculation because they feared regretting a death they had caused. He lost his son to the disease and regretted it all the same. When both choices carry regret, the regret cannot decide; the odds should.

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