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Card #c1325IR // #c1325Synthesis

"This is not hard if you feel like you don’t share the values of a particular group of constituents. But it becomes very challenging—and requires what I would call moral courage—to stand your ground with people whose values you share."

— In our words · Source: Courage Can Save Us (Rye Barcott)

[Use when]

People you respect are pressing you to reverse a decision you still believe is right.

[Why it matters]

Young says the right vote is usually clear. The hard part is holding it when people he loves and respects disagree. He sees himself as their trustee, with no duty to follow a daily opinion poll.

Filed under situations:When the team is looking to you to leadWhen you must decide and the facts aren’t in

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