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Card #c1458IR // #c1458Synthesis

A survivor of old abuse who breaks down under quiet domestic stress can regain steady nerves during a crisis by turning their past suffering into active authority to protect others.

— In our words · Source: A Tale of Two Cities (Charles Dickens)

[Use when]

A veteran worker freezes up during routine office politics. Put them in charge of shielding new hires from a crisis they once survived.

[Why it matters]

Hiding old scars makes a person fragile in safe rooms. Using those scars to rescue someone else gives the pain a job. Yet if the rescue fails, the borrowed strength shatters into total collapse.

Filed under situations:When you’re stuck and running on empty

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