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"Khrushchev, as I have already mentioned, treated Castro paternalistically and at no time seriously solicited his views." "Castro made clear that the price of his continued loyalty in the face of Khrushchev’s gross mistreatment would be billions of dollars’ worth of economic and military support year after year."

— In our words · Source: The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy (Andrew F. Cooper, Jorge Heine & Ramesh Thakur)

[Use when]

You're settling something that affects a partner who isn't in the room.

[Why it matters]

Castro learned of the withdrawal after it was agreed and blocked UN inspections out of anger. The Soviet Union then paid for years. Leaving a junior partner out of a deal made over their head has costs that arrive after the crisis.

Filed under situations:When you need to know who really decidesWhen the team is looking to you to lead

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