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Card #c1255IR // #c1255Synthesis

"…‘negotiation is getting something by giving something, and it is the search for solutions when there are conflicts of interest between countries that meet the foreign policy goals of one country while giving enough to another to motivate it to keep its promises’."

— In our words · Source: The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy (Andrew F. Cooper, Jorge Heine & Ramesh Thakur)

[Use when]

You're pushing for the best possible terms and haven't asked whether the other side will still want to comply next year.

[Why it matters]

The definition builds in a test most deal-makers skip. A deal has to leave the other side enough to keep honoring it once the signing is over. Winning terms the counterpart will walk away from is a loss postponed.

Filed under situations:When the other side has more leverage

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