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Card #c1275IR // #c1275Synthesis

"Leaders need to think of themselves as being in a circle rather than atop a mountain. That means that two-way communications are more effective than commands." "Soft power may appear less risky than economic or military power, but it is often hard to use, easy to lose, and costly to re-establish."

— In our words · Source: The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy (Andrew F. Cooper, Jorge Heine & Ramesh Thakur)

[Use when]

You're trying to win people over by announcing things at them.

[Why it matters]

Joseph Nye argues that attraction works through credibility. Credibility collapses when the audience senses manipulation. Two-way exchange persuades better than broadcasting, but results are slow and governments don't control all the tools.

Filed under situations:When you need a yes and they’re not there yetWhen the team is looking to you to lead

More from The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy

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