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Card #c1085IR // #c1085Synthesis

"The other enters without anxiety ; having lost everything, including shame, he has no further loss to fear." "For even by victory he cannot gain what he has lost by exposing himself to the chances of loss."

— In our words · Source: The Art of Worldly Wisdom (Baltasar Gracián)

[Use when]

Someone with no standing to protect is baiting you into a public dispute.

[Why it matters]

The contest is unequal because only one side has a reputation at stake. Gracián says even winning doesn't repay what you risked by stepping in.

Filed under situations:When the other side has more leverageWhen you need a yes and they’re not there yet

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Same situation, different book

#c1356Show them the engine, skip the pitchYou have a metric that proves your value better than any presentation.From Cancel Me If You Can #c1322Fill the reservoir of trust before you need itYou'll eventually need a deal with a rival and have no reason yet to talk to them.From Courage Can Save Us #c1279The Smarties test for adultsYou're sure the other side must see what you see.From Trade Outside the Box #c1277Listen and then thinkYou're preparing what to say in a meeting where you haven't yet heard the other side.From The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy