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Card #c1259IR // #c1259Synthesis

"As the audiotapes of deliberations on the first day of the private week make clear, Kennedy’s initial inclination was to respond at a minimum with air strikes against Soviet missile sites." "The world is fortunate that Kennedy had a full week and Khrushchev nearly two full days in which to calm down and reflect."

— In our words · Source: The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy (Andrew F. Cooper, Jorge Heine & Ramesh Thakur)

[Use when]

You've just been provoked and the pressure is on to answer today.

[Why it matters]

Both leaders' first reactions were rage. Delays from secrecy and from getting OAS approval for the quarantine gave them time to move past it. Welch worries that today's instant information would deny leaders that week.

Filed under situations:When you must decide and the facts aren’t inWhen the other side has more leverage

More from The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy

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Same situation, different book

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