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"Mediation may not be the right answer when the parties do not demonstrate serious intent to explore a political solution. In such circumstances, the mediator needs to test parties’ motives and avoid pleading for the engagement."

— In our words · Source: The Oxford Handbook of Modern Diplomacy (Andrew F. Cooper, Jorge Heine & Ramesh Thakur)

[Use when]

You're chasing a reluctant party to the table and wondering why each round goes nowhere.

[Why it matters]

A mediator who begs the parties to talk has lost leverage and may legitimize a dominant side's conduct. Ahtisaari would rather do pre-negotiation work, such as unofficial dialogue and capacity-building, until the situation is ripe.

Filed under situations:When the other side has more leverageWhen you must decide and the facts aren’t in

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